Cuddle Pixie Stories is one of the most challenging jobs you’ll ever take on. It can also be one of the most rewarding, if you know what to look for and how to work with your child’s temperament and natural development pace.
Substantial research has shown that warm and responsive parenting in early childhood helps children develop a secure attachment, laying the foundation for social competence, emotional well-being, and physical health. But what does that mean for your family? How can you provide a loving environment while maintaining healthy boundaries and setting clear expectations for your kids?
Be a GOOD ROLE MODEL
Children learn by watching their parents, and they emulate your behaviors. For example, a recent study showed that children who saw their parents eating fruits and vegetables were more likely to do the same. Make a positive impact by promoting healthy eating in your home.
Be a CONSISTENT PARENT
Kids thrive on structure and routine. Set predictable rules and consistent schedules for your kids, and stick to them most of the time — even on weekends and holidays. Having a consistent routine can help prevent power struggles and teach your kids what is expected of them.
Try not to criticize your kids too much, especially when they’re making mistakes. Kids who hear too many negative comments may become defensive and lose confidence in their ability to solve problems.
When your kids are struggling, try to understand their point of view — instead of judging them harshly. And don’t give up on them if they aren’t immediately able to change their bad behavior. It takes time to build self-regulation, and patience is a virtue!
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